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Getting to Know Me via Text... REALLY!

Okay, don't get me wrong, I like to text just as much as the next social butterfly... But what is up with men texting women to get to know them?

I met a gentleman last evening, while I was out running an errand. He asked if he could have my number, and he seemed nice enough, so I gave it to him. He texted me an hour later asking for a picture. I thought "no big deal, my pictures are all over Facebook, Instagram and Twitter", so I sent it to him. He has been texting me since we met. I finally stopped responding to him!

What 39 year old man uses text messaging to get to know a woman they are interested in!?! Oh that's right the other gentleman that I am causal friends with, that's in his 40's, and he likes to text too... I am about to stop talking to both of them to be honest with you!

I am on a key board all day at work, and then I'm on my laptop when I come home in the evening working my business, who wants to sit and text all day! Give me a break! What has happened to the intimacy of a telephone conversation? We almost don't know what each other sounds like anymore because everything spoken is now via text message...

When someone says "Talk to you later", don't they really mean "Text you later"? Because you haven't talked to me yet! To me texting should be done in those situations where you really can't talk at that moment. But, not if you are a man, and you are sitting at home chilling, and trying to text me all night... Like Tamara says "Gettcha Life!!!".

Especially, you are looking to get to know me? It makes me wonder what these men have to hid. Is there a wife/girlfriend/boyfriend in the house? Hmmmm!! I mean really!! What's up?? LOL!! I know, I got you with the whole "boyfriend" thing, but you just don't know these days. What are people trying to hide. And since when did it become okay to accept bare minimums from men?

I remember I was getting so excited about this guy I was talking to, and every time my phone would ding, I was hoping it was a text message from him... Really Kellee!?! I mean WHO DOES THAT!?! Kellee, that's who. LOL! And when it wasn't him, I would get so irritated with whoever it was. Like it was their fault that my boo wasn't texting me... LOL! Thank You Lord for maturing me!

Moral of this story is... Men, pick up the phone and call the lady you are interested in... Ladies, make these men give you what you want, and stop settling for a text...

Ps: Both of the above men I was talking about are Caucasian.. You see, men being lazy comes in ALL races! LOL!

 Be Good.. Live Life.. And Above all else... Be Unusual!


  1. Another great snippet Cuz. Think we all have looked at our phones wishing it was the one we really wanted to here from.


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