So here we go... Is it just me, or does it seem like a lot of men these days, are wanna be players? Why is it so hard for men to be decent? Or is it that they are so used to women settling for less, that it's no big deal to them?
Why is it that women settle? What's the reason for it? Seems like, these days some of us accept almost anything. Is it because we don't know who we are? Is it because we don't know who God created us to be? Is it because we have become so desperate to be with a man? Or is it all of the above?
Whatever it is, how do we change it? How do we turn it around? How do we regain the respect we deserve? Is it too late? Has it gone too far? It seems that believers are more desperate than non-believers. And why is that? Is it because we have committed to a life of celibacy, and the only way to have sex is to get married?
Hmmmm... All of these questions are thought provoking to me. So, I can only speak on my life at this time. There are times in my single life that I absolutely, dislike being single. I love my girlfriends, but I get tired of doing everything with them, I love my son, but I also want to spend time with someone other than my 12 year old.
I want to get out, have a nice dinner and go to the movies, or go see a play. Something clean, and fun, every once in a while. Is that too much to ask for? LOL! A lot of the times, you can't even have "guy" friends anymore. As most men have some motive to try and sleep with you, Christians and non-Christians alike.
Don't get me wrong, there are a lot of men in Christ, that love God above all else. And they are good men! But, there are some... (Well, I am not going to judge).
Moral of the story is... Ladies, let's get it together... And men, step it up! One day you will have to answer to our Father, and when you do.. You want Him to say "Well done!", not "Well, son!" And give you a long laundry list of things He would like to discuss with you.
Be Good.. Live Life.. And Above all else... Be Unusual!